“I want to make beautiful things, even if nobody cares.” — Saul Bass
1/ Observe him in his element. You expect your partner to give you safety and security, but those are the very things that can work against desire. “We want someone who is grounding and anchoring, but we also need mystery, novelty, and the unexpected,” says Perel. The key is to try to view him in a way that makes him seem unfamiliar to you—like, for example, when he’s doing something he’s totally into or when he’s being admired by others. “Looking at him while he’s being passionate about something is the biggest turn-on,” says Elizabeth Lombardo, Ph.D., a psychologist in Chicago.
“A Handy Tip For the Easily Distracted” by Miranda July - NOWNESS (by NOWNESS)